Would you
befriend someone who is going on a buffalo shoot?
Yesterday I
met a neighbor who recently moved into our neighborhood. I really liked her. We
had similar interests until she told me she was going on a Buffalo--what did
she call it? It was not a hunt but a thinning of the herd. Yes, I’ve heard that
a rancher can keep only so many buffalo, so he “thins” the herd. They aren’t
penned, she said, but have free range, but the range will only support so many.
I don’t like
it, but I realize that is the way they “farm” buffalo.
But she is
going to the shoot. To kill buffaloes? I can’t comprehend it.
There is too
much history with buffaloes and how humans practically wiped them from the face
of the earth. The few who survived and kept their specie going are now
preserved because they are on farms and harvested as a crop. There has been too
much heartache. There had been too much slaughter. To face a buffalo and pull
the trigger is too much for me.
What would
you do?
How
different can friends be and still be friends?
One reason I
put a sign-up for a Mastermind group at the end of my book—yep, my “Money Talk”
has morphed into a small book because it isn’t all about money. It’s about “How
To Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to be.” Titled “Take the
Leap”
I wrote a
blog with that title in 2019 and it has gotten more comments than any other.
(On travelswithjo.com.) Steven Pressfield motivated me to write that blog with this quote:
“The highest treason a crab can commit is
to make a leap from the rim of the bucket.”--Steven Pressfield.
I din't
know the characteristics of crabs until I looked up “Crabs in a bucket” and
found that if one crab tries to escape the bucket, the other crabs will try to
pull him back in.
The
Mastermind invitation is because I figured if anyone read my book, they just
might want a group that supported them in their efforts. Plus, they would be
willing to support others in theirs. No strings attached. Let’s face it, we can
all use a little help from our friends. And probably, I wouldn’t attract any
buffalo shooters.