Friday, December 13, 2019

Things To Do This Holiday Season

Hibernate

Bear at the Portland Zoo


Decorate
No kidding, a porta-potty at the entrance to a church right here in Junction City.
At least they put a wreath on it.
"Good sermon Reverend, oh, excuse me."


Celebrate
Licking iced coffee laced with whipped cream off a peppermint stick, el yumo


When a woman asked Martha Beck* what they were doing and she answered, "I don't know," the woman replied, "Okay, well, whatever, we move at dawn."* 


It's dawn. 

 I've spent the week trying to, hoping for, learning to go into Wordlessness. (Martha Beck's term.)  

 It is what Richard, the African native, was doing when he found the leopard cubs in the bush, three miles off the beaten path.  

 Remember Richard? 


He was the native sitting quietly in the Land Rover while the tourists were chatting endlessly. 


Richard was the Safari scout using what Beck calls “Wordlessness.”

Wordlessness is not an easy concept to describe to a Western mind, one that is used to book learnin', and tests where we give the teacher what she wants, and focusing on the grade instead of grasping the material. 


Many Moons ago I read a book titled Of Water and Spirit by Malidoma Patrice Some', a native African stolen out of his home as a child and raised in a Jesuit institution. As an adult, he told the elders he wanted to be initiated back into the tribe. They responded, "I don't know if you can, you're learned to read." 

 At the time that struck me as not only odd but disappointing. Not only do I love to read, but our society is based on it. How do we disseminate information?  Old papyrus scrolls help us to understand where we're been as evolving people, and their "secrets" were important enough for those ancient people to risk annihilation, and to hide their scrolls.

The point the elder was making, however, was that reading had changed Some's brain and that Wordlessness was not a part of him anymore. 
 He did his initiation anyway. 

 See—we can do it. 

 Many of us think we ought to meditate, yet we resist doing it. Meditation usually requires sitting still and going into a non-thinking mode. (It's hard, that's the reason we don't do it.) But what if we didn't have to sit still, what if Wordlessness is a mode we can carry with us?  

Wordlessness exists in the "Zone" of creativity or athletic endeavors where one pushes themselves to higher standards.  Either success comes or the knowledge that "I went the distance." (People aren’t usually thinking when they are hanging by their fingernails on a cliff, except for the next step. They aren’t into mind games like “Poor me, they did me wrong, or I’m not good enough." 

Wordlessness is when we are at-one-with that single leaf that is spinning amongst all the others. It is communing with nature, with your spirit, and with the Great Spirit. 
 I don't mean that we shouldn't speak, and here I am using words to try to convey a concept by telling you it uses no words. 

It's a paradox. 
  
 Boggles your brain doesn't it? 

Many cultures use paradoxes to nudge their students out of their thinking mode. One is "What is the sound of one hand clapping?" 

Jewish koans which seem like nonsensical sayings are an attempt to stop the monkey mind that likes to loop and recycle.  
   
Wordlessness is an oasis for a mind caught in its own web of negative thoughts. What if in the Wordlessness place we find that we can mend both our spirit and our bodies? What if in Wordlessness we find that as we heal ourselves, we heal the world.   

 Happy people do not harm or destroy. 

“They say that I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one." --John  Lennon 

Are you a dreamer?
Hugs,
Joyce 

*Finding Your Way in a Wild New World, Reclaim Your True Nature to Create the Life You Want, by Martha Beck

P.S. I have a foam cushion on my desk chair. My Chiropractor told me I need it for my tail bone. The trouble is every time I stand, the cat curls up on my cushion. Guess he needs it for his tail bone too. 

Thursday, December 5, 2019

Find Your Rhino


Imagine, Martha Beck thought, a middle-aged woman coming to Africa to get skewed by a rhino.*

 

As the momma  rhino’s baby—roughly the size of Shaquille O’Neal--was circling behind the people giving the momma—the size of a small tank—good reason to trample the people to get to her baby, Martha, was quivering, yes, but had a big smile on her face. 

Here, she had dropped the iron cages of her life and stood natural. It was what she had dreamed of when she was a grubby-fingered four-year-old exploring the back yard.

“How in the hell did I get here”” she asked. And “What in the hell am I going to do about it?’

A rhino whisperer talked the baby into going to its mum, and the two lumbered off, leaving Beck with a talisman. 

Find your rhino—that big scarey thing that pops into your life pointing to your destiny.

I’m assuming that iron cages aren’t your style, and that there is something wild in you that seeks freedom.

Not you?

Okay, but you’re here, so I will continue.

The poet Mary Oliver who had a great affinity for the natural world, wrote, “Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”

Londolozi is a Zulu word meaning “protector of all living things.” It was the name of the animal refuge where Beck and three others stood facing that rhino. 

The people who gave Londolozi its name have spent their lives restoring a broken down old cattle ranch. Now it’s an animal preserve flourishing with animal  and plant life, as well as a healthy rhino and her strapping baby. 

Martha, realized that nature can heal.

And if nature can heal, so can we.

While on safari Beck told of riding in a land rover with a group of people who were chattering, asking questions of the guide while a driver maneuvered their vehicle. Beside the drive sat a not-unfriendly, but silent native named Richard.

 Suddenly Richard spoke to the driver. The driver said, “Hold on folks,” and took off into the bush, over pot holes and through thorn bushers, until final stopping before two baby leopards hidden there by their mother. Questions, “How old are they? “ “Will they be all right?’ Cameras clicking. Yet, nobody asked Richard how he knew that three miles off the beaten path, babies were hidden in the bush.

His knowledge didn’t come from books or classrooms. It came from watching and listening, and observing, and learning from other wise people. Beck describes this style of learning as wordlessness. 

I tried a wordless technique yesterday with a pain in my hip—going into the pain, not thinking, listening to my body, not fighting it, and afterward, I felt the pain was 50% better. But then, stupid me, I decided to test it by going for a walk and set it back 150%.

Hey, I’m not claiming to be a medicine woman, I’m just facing my rhino.

*Martha Beck’s book is Finding Your Way in a Wild New World. Reclaim your true nature to create the life you want. 

The following is what I’ve been up to the past week. You can see it when, and if WordPress decides to give me my transferred domain. It will come eventually as wherechampagneismandatory.com


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